Monday, June 28, 2010

New life / because of you.

My son, my precious child.
I love you more than you could ever know.
You came into my life at an awkward moment.
I myself was just a child.

I had faced a lot of challenges,
a lot of growth.
I came through,
and its because of you.

Because of you I have learned so much.
Because of you I am stronger
I am a better person now,
all because of you.

As you grow, I will continue to love you,
cherish you.
I will continue to keep you safe,
even after you've become a grown up.

I will do my best to protect you from everything mean in this world.
I will do my best to shield you from heart ache.
To keep you safe away from pain.
I will kiss all your boo-boos, no matter how old you are.

I have a new life, because of you.
I love you. I will always love you.

As you grow, I hope you find someone to love.
I pray that you get to feel the love of a child that is your own.
I hope that you cherish that love.
As its the best feeling ever experienced.

A mothers love for her child.
A childs love for his mother.

I have a new life.
Because of you.

ChaCha for money :D

I work online. Do you? I make some quick easy money from home.. Can you? YES you can! Heres some info for you.


There is this cool little text service called ChaCha. Have you heard of it? Well, I am sure you heard of the KGB text service - all the commercials... ChaCha is better - wanna know why? KGB charges you $.99 per question you ask! ChaCha however, is completely free! Yupp, free.

Your job is simple. Receive the question that comes in. Answer the question. Simple.
There are a few different jobs/roles available. The site will explain them all for you.
I used to be a Guide - they work a little harder, get a little more pay.
I am now an Expediter - my work is easy-peasy, and i get paid less than a guide LOL. But my job is so quick, that it makes up for it.

I want you to go to www.becomeaguide.chacha.com and fill out the info. When it asks who referred you or how you heard about it, say a friend. then in the next box, enter jentyree08@gmail.com

 You never have a schedule with ChaCha, you can work when you want. They will, however, ask you when you plan on working.. Tip - overnights are much busier. When school starts - after school times are busy too - they ask for homework help lol.

Pay is as follows:
Voice Transcribers get 3cents per question they transcribe. It may not seem like much, but all they do is get a voice message, and they have to type it, and send it off for an answer.
Expeditor's get 2cents per question. I know, this also seems like little, but all we do is select the best answer if there is one listed, and if not, we make the question clear (add punctuation, etc) and send it off for research.
Guides get anywhere from 10-20cents per question. There work is harder by a little bit. Sometimes that it can be tedious. They search for the answers that we don't already have. Their job takes more time, and therefore is payed more.

Now, I get questions all the time, how much can you earn, what are the average, etc.... I cant answer those questions! Its not like all of us share how much we make with each other! And, all of us work different amount of hours. Some only work a few hours, some work all day if they can.  How much you make is really dependent upon you. In all honesty. And also of course depends on how busy it is. But lately, its been really really busy.

Also know this. People try to game the system - they wont read the question, and will just select one of the selections listed - which most of the time, the answer has nothing to do with the question asked. Understand that if you do this to make an extra quick buck, they will find out. They will terminate your contract, and you will no longer be allowed to work. So understand, there is no way to game the system and get away with it. Be honest. Make honest money.

There are 2 ways currently that you can get paid. You can get a card from the bank they use (first internet bank of Indiana - Indiana is the state they are located in), and when you make however much you want to make, click PAY ME NOW and instantly get paid on the card (minus $2 for the convenience).  Or you can have direct deposit, once a month, and only after you reach $100 - You see how that can be difficult? I like the convienence of the card, because if i need to make a few bucks for a bill, i can. or if i want to save the money and cash out when I have a larger amount, I can.
The card -if im not mistaken- can have other direct deposits on it. its basically a checking account- minus the savings, and the checks, and you cannot go overdrawn.  So, similar to prepaid actually, but with an actual bank. Its pretty cool.

Anyways, if you have any questions, feel free to send me an email to jentyree08@gmail.com and I will be happy to answer any questions you have.
But, you can start right away, go to the site listed above, put in my email as the referrer and start the training (really easy) and ta-da. Start working. :-D

Oh, you will be considered an Independent contractor, and if you make over 600 in a year, you will get a i9 form for taxes.   :-D

Monday, June 14, 2010

Why is everyone afraid to talk about sex?

I don't really understand why everyone is so afraid to talk about sex!? Sex is a natural thing for us to do. 


So, I want to explore this topic. Why are you afraid to talk about sex?
Is it because your embarrassed? Is it because your ashamed? Scared? 


Why is everyone afraid to talk about, or even buy and try sex toys? 
Yea, so they may be traditionally taboo, but its not as taboo as you like to think it is. If it was so taboo, there wouldn't be so many sex stores up and running and making loads of money. Theres stores like Fascinations, there is also stores like Adam & Eve, there are small boutique stores, there are party people who throw sex toy parties for people! Think Tupperware party, but with sex toys, lubes, etc. 


Lets explore the sex toy aspect. Why are you afraid to speak of sex toys? Well, a lot of people are afraid to talk about sex toys because they were raised to think of them as bad. As morally wrong. As a young person with religious parents, you were probably told that its morally wrong to touch yourself sexually. That it was a sin, and you would go to hell. But, how can you expect someone to please you sexually (even if you wait till you are married) unless you know what you like first! 
I once knew someone who had never used a toy, never touched or looked at herself down there. She also has never had an orgasm. *Le Gasp* I know, right!  You cannot expect someone else to know what feels good to you, unless you know what feels good first.  


You may now be asking, OK, so I will try to think about this... but what do I do? 
First things first. If you are a woman (which usually its a woman in this position), you need to get a mirror, and take a look at your girlie parts. I know, it may seem weird, but you need to know what you look like! Feel - not sexually - but exploratory.  Get to know yourself.  See the link below for a descriptive drawing of the vagina. This will help you. 
After you feel like you have explored the unknown territory, and have become familiar with it. Try to engage and stimulate yourself. Are you able to arouse yourself on your own? Do not be embarrassed about what turns you on. Think about your fantasy guy, think about the hot movie actor in that new movie you just saw, if your married, or have a boyfriend, think about the features of him that excite you. Are you able to bring yourself to climax? If so, great! If not, thats OK too! As long as you were able to arouse yourself and get going, then you have made progress! 
There are many women who cannot achieve orgasm through intercourse alone, a lot of women need clitoral stimulation as well. For this, I recommend going to your local sex toy store, or going to an online store like Adam & Eve or even my own online toy store and look into getting a small vibrator. Nothing too big or too crazy yet! If your feeling brave, however, go ahead! Be my guest, more power to ya! :-D  Just don't be scared! If you go to a store locally, ask someone there to help you out! Tell them that it is your first time buying a toy, and tell them what you want! They can show you would is recommended, and what would be a good choice for you.  
If you like - I would love to help you pick something out! Just send me a message at jentyree08@gmail.com and put in the subject "sex question". 


Once you have figured out what works best for you, what feels good to you, what you like, you can go ahead and share that with your partner. Know that self love is very much needed for your confidence, and your well being. How can you love someone else, if you cannot love yourself?  Thats how I see it anyway!




Ok, Now back to my first question... Why is everyone so afraid to talk about sex? 
I want your opinions! Comment, lets have a discussion. Feel free to send me a message if you have a question sex or relationship related, and I will address it on the blog as another post. If you want to remain anonymous you can, no problem! 


I look forward to your comments!




I just want to say that I am not a sex professor, sex doctor or anything of the sort. I do not have a degree in the field, but am very interested in the topic, and therefore read a lot about it. I feel that being open and honest sexually is the best freedom there is. No need to be ashamed of it.  Be free!!!


Descriptive drawing. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Vulva_anatomy.jpg


Until next time, 
Jennifer Tyree
jentyree08@gmail.com
www.facebook.com/jennifertyree

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